Tender Youth Board member Erica McKoy speaks to Bill Ward about why he is an advocate of domestic violence prevention.

The #1 article on the Seventeen Magazine website right now is titled "20 Things You Shouldn’t Say to Him." Following this title is the wisdom of real and “attractive” teen boys, filling in the blank for “I hate it when a girl…” with answers like “cries,” “burps,” “talks about her problems,” and my personal favourite, from Leo age 17, “Doesn’t have confidence in herself.” Now Leo, why on earth would a girl not have confidence in herself, especially after reading articles like these and flipping through teen magazines that flaunt unrealistic body images and unattainable clothes and products?

Over a month has gone by since I arrived here in London and already I feel so comfortable in this city and working here at Tender. This internship has proved to be an eye-opening and inspiring experience. Here are a couple things I have been up to.

In response to a few recent requests for information about what to do if your friend is experiencing an unhealthy relationship, Tender Campaign Manager Doireann Larkin has written a post with some things to c

When I started running the Women’s Project at Asylum Aid eight years ago, I was surprised to find out how women are treated in the asylum system. Previously I had worked at Victim Support and I knew there had been lots of progress made in how the police and Crown Prosecution Service worked with women who reported rape or domestic violence. There were even new laws to support them.

When the word abuse is tossed around, most people immediately think of physical acts like slapping and hitting or verbal attacks such as yelling or threats. However, if someone takes an inappropriate picture of a woman without her knowledge or consent and posts it on the internet for the public to see, is it a form of abuse? How does it affect a woman's image and reputation?

Hello! I am Ruby, the brand new intern here at Tender. It is hard to believe that only two weeks ago I was getting on a plane to leave my hometown, Minneapolis, Minnesota, with nothing but a huge backpack and a purse stuffed with maps, books and travel guides. I am taking a gap year after completing two years at Oberlin College in order to travel and work overseas. Since I arrived I have stayed a week in a hostel, found a flat and moved in, explored quite a bit of the city, and I have spent four days starting my internship here. It is incredible when I think about how much I have already done and learned.

"Esteem for or a sense of the worth of a person, a personal quality or ability, or something considered as a manifestation of a personal quality or ability: I have great ******* for her judgment." - Webster Definition

Hi, my name is Erica and I’m a Youth Ambassador at Tender. Over the period of two weeks I did some work experience at Tender, and had a great time helping out a charity that I support strongly.

I came to London to intern at Tender. I graduated from Nebraska and was interested in working in the human rights field. I wanted to learn the ins and outs of what it takes to work successfully in this field on an international level. Tender seem like a good place to start given their impressive history of where they started and where they are now.

Do you think that people should be judged for what’s between their ears rather than what’s between their legs? Yes? Well, congratulations, you’ve passed the test! You are a feminist.

Erica McKoy, an active member of our Youth Board has contributed to our 'Standing Up.

This week I've found myself defending feminism again, this time on a social networking page of a well known American church leader! I've questioned the point in making the same arguments again to people who are really not interested in listening. But I decided that if something is worth standing up for then I should stand up for it even when it can feel futile.

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